I've caught myself, in the whirlwind of the past 7 weeks, striving for perfection- instead of just enjoying this new season, and trusting Him to take care of it all- including the details of mine and Oaks day.  1,000 questions can run through my head and I can find 2,000 different answers and opinions for each question...I found myself trying to be perfect AND trying to please all 2,000 opinions.  Well, as i have found-neither of those things, perfection and pleasing, work...which leads me to a whole lot of frustration.